Your Resentments
The next thing Sangster says in his sermon is this. Let me read it. “There is something else I want you to forget besides your embarrassments and your sins. I want you to forget the hurtful things that have been done against you.
In the Lord’s Prayer we say, ‘forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.’ You need forgiveness yourself. I want you to forget the sins of those who have sinned against you.”
Being Rid of the Poison
Then he says: “Have you been sinned against? Has somebody slandered you or done you the deepest injury? Are you nursing the hope of revenge in your heart? Forget it. Forget that, For your own sake and for God’s sake, cast it out of your heart now. However justified your resentment is, to harbour that resentment is to poison yourself. Be rid of that poison.”
Then he says: “If it seems easy for me to say this, remember that I realise how hard it must be for some of you to do it. I realise that you can’t do it alone, only by the special help of God can you deal with these deep resentments? But the help is available. Claim the help now! From every bit of memory of it which is damaging for you to recall, ask God in His mercy to make you forget.”
Asking God for Help to Forgive
Is that you today? Do you need to forget the way that somebody has offended you or hurt you?
Go to God with it, friends. Go to God with it the moment you stop listening here, Confess that resentment and bitterness in your heart and ask Him to help you to forget it, to take it out of your heart. Take it out of your mind. Release that pain to God.
I know that He’s willing. I know that He’s willing to help you forget it, and move over it.
Remember how much He has loved you. Remember how much He has forgiven you. Remember how He could resent you for the sin in your life, but He doesn’t. He chooses to forgive! And then offer that same forgiveness to whoever it is that has hurt you. And you will find such freedom when you do.
Jesus promised to strengthen Peter's faith after his denial – and He will do the same for you. Will you return to Jesus and find strengthening too?
Peter’s sorrow at his sin pushed him further from Jesus. Instead, he should have run TO Jesus!
Jesus’ last miracle before he died was to heal a man. How unlike Him is Peter, who lashes out!
If Judas had repented, he surely would have found forgiveness. No betrayal is too big for Christ to forgive – if we come back to Him in repentance.
Lent begins with Ash Wednesday! Let me remind you what the ashes you will receive mean. First, they represent repentance.
King Saul's tragic story shows how superficial relationships and unresolved grudges can lead to spiritual isolation and deep regret. Choose today to cultivate authentic relationships and resolve any bitterness you've been carrying before it's too late.
Abram's gracious rescue of Lot demonstrates how experiencing God's grace transforms us into people who extend grace to others, even those who have wronged us.
Abram's interaction with Lot demonstrates how godly people handle conflict through humble concessions rather than prideful demands. Consider one relationship where you might need to make a concession today for the sake of peace and family unity.
William Greathouse was known for his loving and patient way with people. We should all desire his Christlike attitude in this area.
Not all relationships should be resurrected. Consider carefully if God is calling you to ‘shake the dust from your shoes’ and leave some relationships behind.
Do you need to forgive somebody? Holding a grudge is pointless, and damages your own faith. Reconcile today, by offering forgiveness even when you have been wronged.
Sometimes you need to apologize to resurrect a relationship.
Jesus experienced the deepest betrayal yet responded with unfailing love and forgiveness toward those who hurt Him. Return to Him today with your failures and shortcomings, knowing His love is greater than your guilt.
The profound truth of justifying grace means that God's forgiveness isn't earned through our good works, but freely given through faith in Jesus Christ. Understanding this transformative gift can release us from the pressure of trying to prove our worth to God.
An extra devotion to thank you for your support! Let me share a story that reminds me of Peter’s staying away from Jesus in fear of condemnation. I hope it will inspire you to go back to Jesus, if you need to, today.